This entry I want to make some review about book Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.
The habits that have is:
habit 1 - be proactive
You choose how to respond to what life throws at you. Take responsibility for your actions.
habit 2 - begin with the end in mind
Choose your short-term, daily behavior according to the plan you have for your entire life. Think about the legacy you want to leave. Put things in perspective; what would you want people to say at your funeral?
habit 3 - put first things first
Daily planning is too narrow and short-sighted. Weekly planning gives a better big-picture perspective of your goals, and allows for the flexibility to deal with the things that will inevitably come up.
habit 4 - think win-win
Most of life requires cooperation, not competition. Work together with co-workers, friends, and family for mutual benefit. Approach everything in terms of "win/win or no deal"; if you can't reach a deal in which both parties feel they're winning, don't make a deal at all.
habit 5 - seek first to understand and then to be understood
Listen with the intent to understand, not to reply. Diagnose before you prescribe.
To understand others, listen with empathy. To be understood, present your views according to:
ethos: personal credibility
pathos: emotional alignment with the other person
logos: logical reasoning
habit 6 - synergize
Value the differences in relationships. Oneness is not sameness, it'scomplementariness. Unity is not uniformity.
habit 7 - sharpen the saw
Renew and improve in yourself in the following categories, by spending at least an hour each day.
That's all, until meet again in next entry..Salam,Byeee
XoXo
Nur Razak
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